After all, it’s easy to understand gays and lesbians, they simply want to be happy so they build relationships just like every couple around the globe. Maybe your boyfriend shows his rage toward gays to prevent you and others from guessing he’s gay. They say, if you hate something, this means you’re interested in it. If your boyfriend can’t stop talking about lesbians and gays, even when you say nothing on this topic, he may hide the truth from you. 1 He claims he doesn’t like and understand gays Before confronting him, check out these possible signs your boyfriend may be gay. While there’s nothing wrong with it – each of us is trying to create lives that feel right to us – it’s critical to be honest with one another. Many girls stay in relationships with gay boyfriends without realizing it. Whether you feel like you’re stuck in a dead end relationship because of your partner’s sexual orientation or you have had your doubts from the beginning, knowing your boyfriend is gay will save you a lot of time, trouble and stress, and will help him finally find his soul mate.